Black Belt

Exploring unlimited pleasure, taboos, and fantasy

Dates: TBA

Week 1 – Come Hither


Foundations of eroticism. Creating the container and guidelines for safe exploration.

Week 2 – Wired for Rapture


Discover and understand your unique Erotic Blueprint™for hotter sex.

Week 3 – Exploits of Guilty Pleasure

Letting go of sexual shame, creating the conditions for a liberated sex life.

Week 4 – Flirting with Fantasy and the Dark Arts

Using creativity and humour for exploring edges and beyond; blowing up taboos

Week 5 – Sisterhood and Brotherhood

Women’s and men’s circles for rich enquiry into our sexuality.

Week 6 – All Tied Up


Weaving together insights for profound shifts and integrating the bedrocks of an unshakeable relationship.


Jamie Abrams and Adrian Kowal are partners in life and play. They are both highly experienced international facilitators, with a huge breadth of knowledge between them, including; Embodied Arts and Practices, Erotic Blueprints, Yoga, Nature Connection, Tantra, Bodywork, Relationship and Intimacy Coaching, Qigong, Tai Chi and more.

More about Jamie

She has been teaching and facilitating internationally for over 20 years. Jamie specialises in embodied practices that encourage a deeper relationship to oneself. It is through this authentic inquiry that profound intimacy and connection is created. Jamie is known for her light-heartedness and ability to make difficult tasks accessible. She is a Relationship & Intimacy Coach, Erotic Blueprints™ Coach, Embodied Facilitator Coach, senior Embodied Yoga Principles teacher, Sleep Recovery Senior yoga teacher, Thai Yoga Massage practitioner and a Movnat Level 1 Coach.

More about Adrian

He is passionate about the wellbeing of the whole. He is a social entrepreneur and community builder.  Adrian deeply enjoys supporting the balance in people’s personal holistic well-being, working with men’s groups and also guiding adventures and expeditions. Adrian co-founded and ran Evolve Wellness, a centre for growth and wellbeing in London, which he created over 10 years ago and has recently teamed-up with The Life Centre. He has deep knowledge of both urban and nature-based wellness practices. He is also the cofounder of Way of Nature and The Visionaries.

Format of the course

Each week will cover a new topic. A typical week will look like the facilitators presenting on a topic; couples will then explore a given practice together, usually in breakout zoom pods. The class will then re-group for shared learning from the practice, followed by closing Q&A’s.






 £175 per person

Anything else I need to know?

Not really. No previous experience is necessary.

We have the tools, practices and techniques for you to use.

All you (both) need to do is show up with an open mind, engage and practice the given exercises.

It’ll be a playful, wild ride – and an enriching one, for you and your partner.

What are you waiting for?

(These courses are primarily designed for heterosexual relationships – but couples of any gender or sexual orientation are very welcome to attend. If you are unsure if these courses are for you, please feel free to drop us an email on:


It's been a real eye opener. Very enjoyable interactive and thought provoking course with lots of tools and techniques to take away. Well thought out and structured. It’s been a great vehicle to just talk about us.

C&C, Relationship Dojo Participants

Somatic Practice to Heal the Shame Cycle

60 minute video



Shame no longer has to have power over you.



This video is packed with useful somatic (body based) practices that anyone can do, to begin healing the shame cycle and ending shame for good.



You'll be given plenty of simple embodied tools to begin shutting down shame's 3 biggest perpetuators: secrecy, silence and judgement.


You are moments away from shedding unwanted shame!